(Disclaimer: I have never been sailing, nor do I have a clear idea of what a boat looks like. But just go with it.)
The more I stay here, the more I see that destiny is only the direction of the breeze.
It's up to you to hoist the sails, get on the water, build a fucking boat.
You could go your whole life procrastinating, letting your nerves and doubts keep you safe and sad.
Moving forward, getting something done, creating something worthwhile, is not something that happens to you.
It comes from hard, unsexy, uninspired work. It's about choosing a sense of accomplishment over comfort.
Comfort is lovely.
Comfort is a dangerous narcotic.
You must work on something that makes you happy, otherwise the work will exhaust you.
Everyone is built for something. Everyone has that thing that pushes all their happy buttons at once - being a stay at home parent, a game ranger, an entrepreneur.
But finding that thing doesn't mean being high all the time. It doesn't mean that confusion, frustration, or fear will never return.
Finding it just means that the wind is in your sails. That's a big deal, a big relief, a big chance to be the best person you can be.
But it's just that: a chance. Not a promise or a money-back guarantee.
Actually doing it, choosing the forward motion instead of fighting with your crew or bobbing around the water in a place that looks good enough.... that's up to you.